The current generation is being encouraged to constantly wear their pain as a badge of honour. They are always in search of someone to blame for their failures, bad behaviour, bad attitudes and bad actions. Self-responsibility is not so trendy nowadays and neither is self-accountability. Here to explore the topic of victimhood with me is MJ, a Marketing expert and Part time Realtor. We explore why many people are drawn to a victimhood mentality in the US and UK.